Your wedding band should feel like a natural continuation of your engagement ring. It doesn't need to be identical, but it should feel balanced, intentional, and comfortable to wear alongside it. Whether your engagement ring is a classic solitaire, a vintage piece, or a bold contemporary design, the right band will enhance it without competing for attention.
Here’s how to choose the right shape, fit, and style.
1. Start with Shape and Profile
Begin by checking how your engagement ring sits on your finger. Consider the height of the setting and whether the centre stone or setting creates a gap.
Straight bands suit raised settings or rings with a plain, uninterrupted band.
Curved or contoured bands follow the shape of your engagement ring, ideal if the setting creates space between the rings.
Notched or fitted bands are shaped to lock around your engagement ring for a close, precise fit.
2. Consider the Band’s Width and Balance
Think about how the width of your wedding band will sit next to your engagement ring. Rather than aiming to match it exactly, look for a sense of visual balance.
Try placing bands of different widths next to your ring to see what feels right. A very slim band can highlight a statement engagement ring, while a slightly wider band might ground a finer design. Sometimes, a contrast in size or style creates a more striking effect than a perfect match.
Ultimately, the goal is to find a pairing that feels cohesive when worn together and comfortable for everyday wear. If you're unsure, we can guide you through options in-store or during a consultation using sample bands and resin models.
3. Match or Mix Metals
For a classic, cohesive look, match the metal of your wedding band to your engagement ring. This includes the metal colour and surface finish, such as polished 18ct yellow gold with the same tone and sheen.
Mixed metals are also becoming more popular. Combining a white gold ring with a rose gold band can look modern and distinctive, provided the tones complement each other and the quality is consistent.
4. Choose Diamonds or Detail
A diamond band can add extra sparkle, but it's important to keep balance in mind. If your engagement ring already features diamonds, a full eternity band may feel too busy. A half-set or flush-set style can introduce just the right amount of brilliance.
Other design details to consider include:
Engraving for a vintage-inspired finish
Milgrain edging for subtle texture
Polished plain bands for a minimal and timeless look
All of these options are available at Meaden and can be customised to pair perfectly with your engagement ring.
5. Consider How You’ll Wear Them
Think about whether you’ll wear your engagement ring every day or just for special occasions. If your wedding band will be worn alone most of the time, make sure it feels complete by itself.
Some couples choose two wedding bands. One is worn with the engagement ring, and the other is reserved for everyday wear, particularly if they work with their hands or prefer a lower-profile ring.
6. Try Everything On Together
Seeing how your rings sit together on your own hand is the best way to choose with confidence. At Meaden, we offer in-person consultations so you can try different wedding bands alongside your engagement ring. This helps with deciding on proportions, shape, and comfort.
For rings with intricate or unusual settings, we can create a custom-fitted wedding band that follows every curve. This ensures a seamless, tailored result.
CAD Designs and Resin Models
Because most of our wedding bands are made to order, we don’t always have every style available in precious metal to try on. That’s why we offer CAD drawings and resin models.
CAD drawings give a detailed digital view of the ring, including proportion, scale, and finish.
Resin models let you try on a prototype to see how the band looks and fits with your engagement ring.
This process is especially helpful for custom or fitted bands, allowing you to make an informed decision before production begins.
Final Thoughts
Choosing a wedding band that complements your engagement ring takes care and consideration. The two rings should feel like they belong together — distinct, yet in harmony.
Book a consultation with Meaden to explore our collection of wedding bands, try different styles, and create a set that feels truly personal. Every ring is made to order in New Zealand using high-quality materials and craftsmanship built to last a lifetime.